If Your Parent Is Showing These 4 Signs, It Could Be a Sign the End is Near—Here's How to Prepare. I Never Knew This!

How to help
• Visit calmly and gently.
• Hold their hand, speak softly – they often hear, even if they don't respond.
• Don't force a conversation; being present is valuable in itself.

2. Changes in appetite and fluid intake
2. Changes in appetite and fluid intake

Towards the end of life, the desire for food and water decreases. Your parent may:

refuses food and drink;

swallows more difficultly and more slowly;

has dry lips, even if you offer water.

The body no longer needs “fuel” like it used to, and forcing yourself with food causes discomfort, not comfort .

How to help
• Offer sips of water or ice cubes if they want.
• Maintain lips with balm.
• Let them decide how much to take – it's a natural process, not a battle.

3. Altered respiratory rhythm

In recent days, breathing often changes:

long pauses appear (so-called Cheyne-Stokes breathing);

"Wheezing" or "groaning" sounds are heard (known as the "death rattle");

breathing becomes shallow, irregular, or labored.

The cause is slowed blood circulation and fluid retention in the lungs and throat.